Reims, France

A winter weekend meant for focused work that turned into something quieter: walking through Reims in the drizzle, eating well, talking until silence, and letting the hours slip away. Forty-five minutes from Paris, Reims, a borrowed city that gave me time with a friend and nothing quite urgent to do.

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Year-end inventory

I recently realized I’m this close from financial ruin, I started taking inventory of everything I own: my clothes, my books, even my ridiculous stash of skincare. The real surprise wasn’t how much I’d accumulated, but how much I already have… and how much I’ve been avoiding facing myself in the process.

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Shrinking sweaters, expanding mindfulness

It started with a wool cardigan that shrank and ended with a realization that maybe I didn’t need new clothes at all. A tale of headphones (where did that come from), impulse control, and a small but meaningful evolution in how I establish my limits and standards and how I spend my money and attention.

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This season of life

Lately, I’ve been thinking about how life moves in seasons: of striving, healing, becoming, or maintaining. For the first time, I’m in a season that feels steady, even joyful. Not because everything is perfect, but because I’ve learned to savor what already is. This essay is about that shift and an invitation for you to ask yourself: What season of life are you in right now?

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I drive now

I thought I was fine being a passenger forever. But finally being able to drive my own car turned out to be less about convenience but more about having the option, and freedom.

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