In Response to Adulting from 2016

What is adulting? I’ve always thought it was being self-made, being independent, or confident. I got this concept from one of the books I’ve recently read, which joins every bit of idea I have of it: Adulting means self control. The ultimate mastery of being an adult is calmness - the state of being calm.

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Getting Married

Why do people get married anyway? They say it’s something you just feel. There will come a time when it would feel… right. Isn’t that a dangerous thing? Feelings are fleeting - they come and go. So why would I rely on such an unstable basis for a decision of a lifetime?

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A Premature 2019 Year-in-Review

Usually, a year-end report is done at the end of the year. Sleep eludes me tonight, 4th of November, for numerous ideas running randomly in my head. As we enter a new decade, I look back at the past 10-11 months.

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Impersonal Pronouns

How inevitable are pronouns? This is a thought I tried to ponder about the other day as I strategize how to objectively argue with a person and not try to get my opinion – especially not my feelings – in the discussion and avoid offending said person, and yet get my point across convincingly.

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Calm and Cerulean Camiguin

Overall, will definitely go back here. I’m even debating it it’s the best island there is! Yes, even El Nido and Coron are in danger of only coming in second and third on my list. Boracay doesn’t even come close. Camiguin might just be my top Philippine destination!

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Renaissance

To most, rebirth happens after some special, life-altering events. My blog is undergoing renaissance not for this reason, at least not solely for this reason.

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